I feel one of the biggest mistakes our society is making is that we are continuing to raise the expectations of children higher and higher. It isn’t healthy.
Let them be Little
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Raising Brave Kids
I was not raised to be brave. I was raised to fear the world. And I did. When our kids came along I made a choice to parent them differently.
You are a Good Mom!
I want you to know, you are a good mom. We are constantly fed lies about how we need to be perfect parents and create perfect kids. That isn’t true. Perfect is creepy and weird. Be real. Real is messy, and crazy. It is the rare days when you feel so much joy your...
How to Play with Your Kids
Many adults don’t know how to play. But play is essential to the human experience. Here are some ideas on ways you can play with your child at all ages.
Autism: Mad Scientist Toddlers
You made a child who needs to test all the laws of the universe for themselves. They believe in nothing they cannot taste, touch, break or destroy.
ADHD + Coffee = Magic
Using coffee instead of medication helps some people with ADHD focus and get more done! Why does this work and should you try it? Learn more!
Making your own Schedule and Goals
One of the hardest parts of being a homeschool parent is that you have to set your own schedule. If you don’t make the plans, they don’t happen.
Tips for Homeschooling when you have ADHD
I often talk about homeschooling when the kids have ADHD. But what if you have it? I have some tips.
How to be the Worst Autism Parent
Generally, I love working with autistic children as part of my OT practice. But today, I’m going to tell you about the worst experience I ever had as an OT.
Can a Diet Cure Autism or ADHD?
There is no diet that will cure ADHD or autism. However, I do think there is a reason these diets get so much attention, and some of them make some good points.
Intergenerational Trauma
Trauma can influence the genes of those who experience it, which can lead to anxiety or a tendency towards substance abuse in future generations.
When to Talk to Your Kids About Dating
This is a question I have a strong opinion on. I think the best time to start talking about dating is significantly before your child starts dating.
Childhood Passions are Overrated
I don’t want my child to find a single driving passion in their young lives. I want them to find a passion for life.
Kids and Consequences
Giving your kids consequences for their behavior can be one of the more challenging aspects of parenting. This is extra true if your child is neurodiverse.
My Job
For many years now, I’ve been mostly a stay-at-home mom, who also homeschools her kids. That sounds so easy compared to what I do. Here’s my job description.
Assume Competence!
I saw this phrase recently referring to non-verbal, minimally verbal, and disabled children, and I loved it. Assume competence. What does that mean?
How to Spot and Befriend a Homeschool Mom
It’s homeschool park day, and we all know what that means! We’ll be dragging our children to the playground in hopes of adult conversation.
Picky Eaters: Older Kids and Teens Ideas
Most parents complain that their teens are eating them “out of house and home”. But what if your child is a reluctant eater?